20 March 2008
The Daffodil Principle
Posted by Joy Bischoff under: General .
Thanks to Cas for sending this along. It lifted my spirits and I hope it will lift yours.
Several times my daughter had telephoned to say, “Mother, you must come to see the daffodils before they are over.” I wanted to go, but it was a two-hour drive from to Lake Arrowhead “I will come next Tuesday”, I promised a little reluctantly on her third call.
Next Tuesday dawned cold and rainy. Still, I had promised, and reluctantly I drove there. When I finally walked into Carolyn’s house I was welcomed by the joyful sounds of happy children. I delightedly hugged and greeted my grandchildren.
“Forget the daffodils, Carolyn! The road is invisible in these clouds and fog, and there is nothing in the world except you and these children that I want to see badly enough to drive another inch!”
My daughter smiled calmly and said, “We drive in this all the time, Mother.” “Well, you won’t get me back on the road until it clears, and then I’m heading for home!” I assured her.
“But first we’re going to see the daffodils. It’s just a few blocks,” Carolyn said. “I’ll drive. I’m used to this.”
“Carolyn,” I said sternly, “please turn around.” “It’s all right, Mother, I promise. You will never forgive yourself if you miss this experience.”
After about twenty minutes, we turned onto a small gravel road and I saw a small church. On the far side of the church, I saw a hand lettered sign with an arrow that read, “Daffodil Garden.” We got out of the car, each took a child’s hand, and I followed Carolyn down the path. Then, as we turned a corner, I looked up and gasped. Before me lay the most glorious sight.

“Who did this?” I asked Carolyn. “Just one woman,” Carolyn answered. “She lives on the property. That’s her home.” Carolyn pointed to a well-kept A-frame house, small and modestly sitting in the midst of all that glory. We walked up to the house.
On the patio, we saw a poster. “Answers to the Questions I Know You Are Asking,” was the headline. The first answer was a simple one…. “50,000 bulbs,” it read. The second answer was, “One at a time, by one woman. Two hands, two feet, and one brain.” The third answer was, “Begun in 1958.”
For me, that moment was a life-changing experience. I thought of this woman whom I had never met, who, more than forty years before, had begun, one bulb at a time, to bring her vision of beauty and joy to an obscure mountaintop. Planting one bulb at a time, year after year, this unknown woman had forever changed the world in which she lived. One day at a time, she had created something of extraordinary magnificence, beauty, and inspiration. The principle her daffodil garden taught is one of the greatest principles of celebration.
That is, learning to move toward our goals and desires one step at a time– often just one baby-step at time–and learning to love the doing, learning to use the accumulation of time. When we multiply tiny pieces of time with small increments of daily effort, we too will find we can accomplish magnificent things. We can change the world …
We plant a bulb every time we promote principles of freedom and each time we help each other plant these in our hearts.
7 Comments so far...
Iffer Says:
20 March 2008 at 3:16 pm.
Wow-That is breathtaking!
That is an awesome story, “from small and simple things, great things come to pass.”
Pickles Says:
20 March 2008 at 3:51 pm.
I’m crazy about daffodils. I love this. Good message to.
Jan W. Says:
20 March 2008 at 5:17 pm.
I wasn’t feeling up to politics today but I decided to take a quick look. I’m sooooo glad I did. That is so gorgeous it just lifts my heart.
Bryon Says:
20 March 2008 at 7:09 pm.
This is a wonderful principal. One person can change the world, even if it takes many years.
Carrie Says:
20 March 2008 at 9:27 pm.
Wow this is so perfect the first day of spring. I always thought of daffidils as happy flowers.
E.E. Says:
20 March 2008 at 9:34 pm.
Good point, Bryon. We each need to believe this because it will take each one of us in the future.
Hank Says:
20 March 2008 at 11:14 pm.
Old men love flowers to. You are right Carrie. What a great way to celebrate the arrival of spring. Because it sure hasn’t gotten to MA. I think we got Stumpy’s rain.
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